Olivia Wilde's Glamour September Issue

For the September issue of Vogue, the gorgeous and talented Olivia Wilde shared her newest role: mother.



Draped in high-end threads and jewels, she proudly shares her most precious accessory, her son Otis. Unlike some of the other maternity photoshoots we've seen (perfectly posed, rigid emotion, etc), Wilde shares a very intimate look at her naturing role as a mother - while breastfeeding her son. As a mom-to-be who is interested in designer fashion and nurturing aspects of motherhood, I found this cover issue the best of the season.



Her new role may be the most important, long-term that she's taken on, but her acting career won't be put on hold. As she told Glamour:  "My mom is such a badass working mother. That inspired me when I was pregnant. I wasn't going to sacrifice myself because I was becoming a mother."



Perhaps her most memorable shot from the entire shoot is the one of her breastfeeding Otis. For moms-to-be across the world, the stigma that follows breastfeeding has been a huge area of concern, and even advocation. When it came to the breastfeeding shot, Wilde found it more natural than anything else.

"Being shot with Otis is so perfect because any portrait of me right now isn't complete without my identity as a mother being a part of that. Breast-feeding is the most natural thing. I don't know, now it feels like Otis should always be on my breast. It felt like we were capturing that multifaceted woman we've been discussing—that we know we can be. You can be someone who is at once maternal and professional and sexy and self-possessed. [But] I mean, I certainly don't really look like that when I'm [typically] breast-feeding. And there's usually a diaper involved."

 



To read the full conversation with Glamour and get the details on her fabulous outfits, check out Glamour.com.

Photos by Patrick Demarchelier via Glamour.

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5 Things To Do When Pregnant

Before I go into what I suggest you get, let me explain why.

If you're pregnant, your entire being is dedicated to the growth of another. It's exhausting. It's beautiful. And until you have your little one in your arms, it's not rewarding on a daily basis. I've been very blessed during my pregnancy and have not suffered through nausea or unbearable discomfort.

Currently, I'm at my 25 week mark. I feel pretty good, I have more energy than usual, but sometimes I still want to treat myself. And why shouldn't I? Once Ellie comes along, she is going to be the main focus of not only my time, but my also budget.

So, over the course of your journey, I suggest you treat yourself too. Perhaps you have a different taste in a "treat" and if so, please comment and share with me! These are the top 5 things I have treated myself with, and some of them I will repeat again.



Here we go:

1. Get A Pregnancy Massage -This is something I went into detail in a past blog post. Basically, it is a great way to relieve tension and relax. The massage is performed at a medium pressure for a safe approach to providing relief.

"As well as relaxation and stress relief, the massage is an effective remedial treatment for soothing lower back pain, relieving and preventing sciatica and for soothing away any tension and knots around the neck and shoulders. It is also great to reduce swelling in the arms and legs and prevent leg cramps and varicose veins." - CamABaby.com

[caption id="attachment_1152" align="alignnone" width="545"] If you live in the Peterborough area (England) - this place looks amazing. Their website is CalmABaby.com or tweet at them via @calmababyuk[/caption]

2. Buy Yourself At Least 1 SEXY Bra -Why? Because if you're like me, your boobs have gone up a couple cup sizes. They are heavy, and you want them to be free. But, from what I've been told by my aunts, you're going to be quite saggy. I'm 21! I am not having that. So, I made my way to Victoria's Secret, measured my new cup size and checked out their clearance. I found a black lace balconette and it fits, and I like to wear it because it makes me feel pretty. It's nice, try it.

[caption id="attachment_1151" align="alignnone" width="420"] Bonus points if it's a nursing bra and you breastfeed![/caption]

3. Treat Yourself To A Spa Pedicure - I've only had one other pedicure my entire life, and I wasn't impressed AT ALL. That being said, I made my way to my favorite organic salon, Metamorphosis Salon and Spa. I'm sure you know how much I love this place by now. I set myself up an appointment, stopped at the best coffee shop in Pittsburgh, the only place that knows how to make a good chai latte in my opinion. Anyway, I was in my old neighborhood of Lawrenceville, where Metamorphosis's newly renovated shop is open around 51st street. There was just something about the combination of sitting in a heated massage chair, getting my calves and feet massaged (and masked! Worth the extra money), and my toenails trimmed, shaped and painted (which I can't exact reach comfortably at this time). I was there for about an hour, and left with soft feet and a great Zoya color on my nails. I'll definitely be making another appointment next month.

[caption id="attachment_1149" align="alignnone" width="545"] Ahhh.. Can't you just smell the essential oils?[/caption]

4. Invest In Comfortable Shoes - This is something that either seems really obvious, or if you're like me, is the last thing on your radar. I actually just bought new heels from Aldo (what...? they were on sale!!). To be frank, really well-made, supportive shoes aren't cheap. I've looked in many shoe stores, and my latest favorite was a find at DSW. They're called Aerosoles, they're not the most stylish foot accessory, but they feel amazing. I found them in the clearance section, and even with the extra discount - they're more than $50. When you've invested in an entire shoe collection and can't fit into a single pair - you become desperate. I was told by another shopper her foot went up a half inch and never went back down. Well, I'm up a half size. And after being on my feet all day, I could really use some extra comfort.

[caption id="attachment_1147" align="alignnone" width="414"] Dansko "Olivia" from the Marseille Collection in Leopard Hair Calf Leather[/caption]

5. Buy A New Purse - What? A Bag? Yeah, a bag. I'm preparing to carry around a diaper bag for my essentials (minus my wallet I guess), so before my little one is here with her luggage, I want to sport a super cute bag. So, I purchased a larger sized bag (thinking practically here) and a smaller, clutch size cross-body. Both Nine West. I love Nine West. Whether your budget allows for a designer bag, or something from Target's current collection (which is to die for), I say go for it.

[caption id="attachment_1148" align="alignnone" width="495"] I just purchased this Nine West Tunnel Mini Cross Body Bag (in tan.) from DSW.. And it was only $19.95![/caption]

I'd love to hear what other stylish mom-to-be's are doing to keep themselves happy through their pregnancy, so please, share below!

My Pregnancy Massage Metamorphosis

Two weeks ago, I was lucky (and delighted) enough to be invited down to Metamorphosis Salon and Day Spa, where I got my hair chopped off back in February, for a complimentary pregnancy massage. I've only ever had one massage in my life...which I didn't love...so I was ready for a soothing, comforting experience.


Let me start by saying I have been VERY fortunate and have had a really easy pregnancy. No morning sickness. My feet haven't swelled to the size of sausages. I have minimal to no heartburn. And, most importantly my baby is totally healthy. That being said, I still have backaches and constantly want a foot massage (which my boyfriend truly does not enjoy, sadly.)

So, a few Wednesdays ago, I made my way to Lawrenceville for an hour-long massage with the Spa's co-owner, Judy Scarfone.

I filled out a two-page questionnaire about my health as a precautionary measure. After that, I selected my scent for the massage: grapefruit. Yum! I love a fresh, citrus scent and I had a night class that evening, so I figured I could benefit from the energizing oil.

When everything was prepared, I made my way into a dimly lit room with some sort of peaceful indigenous music playing in the background. Judy explained to me that, in her experience, women who indulged in pregnancy massages did not prefer to lay on their stomaches, so I rotated from each of my sides and my back. Judy was kind enough to help me place pillows on my legs and back, which made me more comfortable and relaxed throughout the massage.

Once she began, Judy worked out the most awful knots in my shoulders - which, I had no idea I had until I felt them melt them away in her hands. Even with a lighter, medium pressure, she was able to push out all of the tension. She massaged my arms, legs, feet and back until our session ended.

I could have fallen asleep I was so relaxed, but the citrus notes in the air helped me feel refreshed, not just tired.

I left the Spa just about an hour after I arrived. I was feeling better than I knew I needed to feel as I described to my mother, who told me she wasn't super jealous after hearing about my massage - she never had a pregnancy massage with me or my younger brother, sorry ma!

Feeling this great, I knew I would definitely be going back to for a massage as my pregnancy continues, but I was curious - what are the benefits of pregnancy massage other than the supreme relaxation? Judy answers all my questions below:

PRR: What are the ultimate benefits of a pregnancy massage?

JS: Pregnancy massage has many positive effects, including lowered anxiety, decreased back and leg pain, improved sleep, decreased levels of cortisol, an indicator of stress, and an increase in the hormones serotonin and dopamine.  These are the “feel-good” hormones.  Research has also shown that massage boosts the immune system’s ability to fight off viruses and tumors.

PRR: How long have you been doing massage therapy professionally?

JS: Mia [her daughter] and I have both been licensed massage therapists for three years.  We have both taken pregnancy massage courses.

PRR: How frequently would you recommend getting a massage?

JS: As often as you can make the time and can afford it.  We recommend once a month or once every six weeks.

PRR: Are there any features of a pregnancy massage unique to Metamorphosis?

JS: Not really!  As you experienced, we try to make our clients as welcome and comfortable as possible.  We have many positive reviews and think that our clients enjoy our facility (especially the new place!) and our style of massage.

PRR: What is the difference between giving a pregnancy massage versus any other? (For example, I remember you saying a medium pressure is recommended)

JS: Pregnancy disrupts normal blood circulation.  In a pregnant woman, blood volume increases dramatically – sometimes as much as 50%.  Blood flow to the legs often becomes sluggish.  Also the levels of anticoagulants in the blood naturally rise during pregnancy in order to prevent hemorrhaging during delivery.    Because of the risk of dislodging a blood clot during massage, only gentle pressure is indicated during a pregnancy massage.  During pregnancy you also want to be careful with Acupressure and Reflexology.  There are points on the hands and feet associated with the ovaries and uterus.  These areas are avoided during a pregnancy massage so as not to stimulate those organs.  These points are around the ankles and Achilles tendon and also the pressure point between the thumb and finger.  For these reasons we do not do any massages in the first trimester of anyone’s pregnancy.  We also ask for a doctor’s slip for massage during the remainder of the pregnancy, if possible.  And, we ask each client to sign a waiver that indicates they do not have any complications or reasons why they shouldn’t receive the massage.

*Are you pregnant and live in the Pittsburgh area? Mention that you read this post for $20 off your pregnancy massage at Metamorphosis Salon and Day Spa! Not pregnant? There are other massages available and this coupon still applies to you! 

Expectant Style: A Chic Pregnancy Guide

Ah, the beauty of motherhood. It is a great time to enjoy your natural glow, but when it comes to dressing your lovely bump, it can be hard to find items that are stylish and comfortable (especially in the summertime!)

When it comes to shopping for clothes that are maternity-friendly, keep these tips in mind:



1.) Drawstrings are your friends. Now, these types frocks may not have been your go-to pre-pregnancy, but trust me; these are worth the investment. First of all, they will stretch with you. Second, they have tons of cute options now, from dress pant look-a-likes to light, linen and silk options. Third, they're on trend. That's right. Hippie chic pants are back in a big way. So when you're ready to make the buy, keep a fun print in mind!

2.) Embrace colors! Whether it's a pale baby pink or jewel tone purple, colors can keep your style looking alive. Chances are, you're going to steer towards neutral skirts, shorts and pants, so why not utilize a bold color to accent your bump? Sure, black may be slimming, and if you're feeling bloated, you may think this is your best option. But remember, you've only got the bump as your accessory for the next few months!

3.) Long tunics > button downs. Now, this one may seem obvious, but as your bump grows (along with your chest) a tunic is a great way to keep your belly covered and stylish. Not only are they a great way to keep covered (and professional if this is a concern for you) they are a great pair with leggings, denim shorts, linen boot cut pants, etc. Not only will you have tons of styling options, tunics usually come in a great variety of colors and prints.

4.) Maxi dresses will truly help you embrace your bump. If you're like me, your bump has only just begun to show (22 weeks and counting!) which means you're excited to accentuate your new feminine feature. Maxi dresses are not only comfortable and no-hassle, they happen to fall on your body shape in the most accentuating ways - like I said in tip #2, embrace it while you have it! Most maxi dresses come in light fabrics, which will help you keep cool as summer approaches.

Now you may be thinking, ah! great tips - but where the heck can I find these glorious items for my ever-expanding closet? Well my friends, I have put together an expectant style collection with the help of my friends at Mavatar. So not only do you have tons of options to shop for, you're going to get a great discount, too!*

*See Mavatar.com for details.

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